My, my myyyy. It's been awhile. Sorry. There's been some things I've been going through emotionally and physically; with school starting and all I was just too excited, such as all the new eye candy (: I wasn't surprised to see so many new faces, not to mention not so cute faces.
It has come to my attention that a lot, and when I say a lot, I mean A LOT, of guys don't know how to approach a lady. It starts off with the typical, "'Ay ma, you look good, what's you're name?' 'Ay, what's good?' or the very typical, car honking and the dog howling.
I mean, is chivalry really dead? Do men not know how to talk to a lady anymore? Oh, and I'm definitely not bashing all men, I'm just saying for the most part, a lot of men, have forgotten, that women don't like to be treated as an object, but as a person with respect, please nothing degrading and derogative.
To the ladies who actually fall for those dumb pickup lines. REALLY? You're either really stupid, or desperate. Sorry, it's the truth, and if you don't like it, that top right corner with the "x" on it, feel free to click it.
School has started, and there are a few guys, that have made me look twice, but nothing too serious. Back on track, since school has started, I've been hearing, witnessing, and been a victim to all of these dumbass pickup lines.
I feel like I need to sit these little boys down, and give 'em a good lesson or two, the to do's and the don'ts.
Ladies. Do y'all really fall for that stupid crap? Do you think that they never ever ever say that to another female? What makes you think they haven't? Think about how many times a guy has used that line for it to actually work. Oh geeze right? I can certainly go on and on, but I feel like I keep reiterating myself, only because you dumb dumbs keep forgetting it. So do me a favor, and plaster this on your head, brain, or heart, just so you know and not forget next time.
It has come to my conclusion, that a lot of males/females have decided to stay single, for the simple reason of no drama. There are some that have just been out of a relationship, or just doesn't want to be "tied down". Which is the dumbest reason ever, because only you, yourself allows you to be "tied down", no one is making that choice for you. I've recently been chattin it up with a few people, and they've took the turn on being friends...with benefits. It's the same damn thing without the title. You're going to be with that person, you're going to be hanging out with that person, and when the other person finds another person, you get attached, then well, there's going to be drama, no? Look it, you didn't even have to be in a relationship to cause that drama issue either.
What most people don't know about relationships is, it's a team effort, and a whole lotta compromises. Oh and whoever said "whoever cares less in the relationship has the upperhand", is total bullshit to me. If I was in the relationship to where my bf didn't care, um BYE! I don't need that bullshit, because I clearly deserve better and am way better than that. This goes for the guys and girl, because we all know this can happen to anyone.
I like how when I ask girls/guys why they're single, and they I don't want to be in a relationship right now, but I got this friend with benefits, sweetie, it's the same damn thing, without the title. It's amazing on how much relationships have changed from time to time. Oh and that saying, "people changes people, not time" is all wrong, its actually vice versa. I really don't know what to say in all of this because I really have no say in your relationship, and I'm no Dr. Phil and I can't tell you what to do or say in a relationship, but I know commitment, loyalty, respect, being faithful, and honesty are very important factors, as a matter of fact, it's the IT factor, in order for it to work.
Now there's the other kind of people who say if they wanted a relationship, they could have one. Now my boy @notowndez (go follow him on twitter) had brought up a very interesting point, as to why, have any relationship, when you can have THE relationship? Why put yourself out there for a waste of time relationship that you get nothing out of, when you can be in the best relationship, and the admiration is reciprocated? I mean, isn't that what we all want? Is to love, and be loved in return, isn't that what the greatest thing is? #Therewasatimewhen people said "i love you" and meant it. Let's get back to those times eh? I understand it's not as easy said then done, but you know that saying "good things happen to those who wait"? well how about we change that to "great things will happen to those who chase it" (quote me) Chase your dreams, your life, your fantasy, your goals, but let's not get carried away and chase people yeah? k, thanks.
Love is hard. No one is actually ready for it, until it shows up at your doorstep, kinda like a baby, no one is actually fully ready for it, until it pops out, and before you know it, everything is going to be fine. Take your time and don't rush it, but don't go on and be like a grandma lookin ass and going hella slow. There's a perfect speed to go at, and only you can figure that out.
As to sum it up, boys grow the fuck up, ladies, don't be such gullible retarded hoes and believe anything everything you hear. Everything is better off in twos, tis why we have 2 eyes, arms, legs, hands, and well ya know other parts that come in two's. Relationships should never come more than two, because we alllll know that saying, three's a crowd. Keep it real.
"Things may come to those who wait; but only the things left by those who hustle"
