Coming home

Hey everyone! It's cinco de mayo!! I'm not a big drinker, anymore, lol I stopped, retired, and became a grandma. Anyways, hope everyone is having a great and wonderful not to mention safe time! I'm currently on the train ride going back home. I was on vacation visiting my sister in Sacramento, for a few days, and I bought some lovely gelish polish! Then went to Fountain Valley/LA for the rest of the week, and bought my UV lamp there. If you don't know what that is, I suggest you look it up, and check out how amazing that nail product is! 

*I'm talking about the gelish polish now, if you're not interested then you can skip ahead, I won't hate you, if you are, continue reading.

If you're thinking about buying it, fair warning, it's pricey, but if you feel that you will be getting gel polish numerous times in your life then i suggest you invest in it. You're gonna need a primer, a base coat, a top coat, a color(s) of your choice and a 36 watt UV lamp. No, a 9 watt will not work no matter how long you put it under the lamp, trust me. I bought the ORLY brand and its very easy to do, but its also very important that each time you paint your nails, make sure its a thin coat, and you don't want to mess up, if you do clean up before you put it under the UV lamp, because trust me, it will be stuck there for a while lol, but not to worry you can peel off the excess nail polish the day after. First, file your nails down to the shape of how you want your nails to look like, then make sure you wipe down all the excess nails/powder, make sure its clean, very very important. Secondly, get your primer and apply it to the very tips of your nails, then let it dry. Next, get your base coat and apply it all over your nails, get your UV lamp out and have it under the lamp for 30 secs, your supposed to use a "dry brush" to wipe off the tackiness of the polish, but I just use a napkin to wipe it off, works the same way. After that, apply your color of choice! Do a first coat, then under UV lamp for 30 sec, and another coat then under the lamp again for another 30 sec. Depending on the color you choose, you might need more than 2 coats. After applying your color of choice, get your top coat, and evenly coat it on your nails, then under the UV lamp for 30 sec. Wipe it down with an alcoholic pad, or like me a napkin will suffice, and ta-dah! You got gelish nails!

Another way is to just watch the video on youtube lol, thats how I know how to do it, it also shows you to remove the gel polish.

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Alright, back to blog related things. Someone I follow on twitter (follow me @mollydarlinggg) asked if women had "back ups" and it dawned on me as how bad that sounded. I think I'm guilty of this, but I didn't consider it as "back ups" but just broadening my horizons? I dont know, dont judge me! Anyways, for me it was dealing with common knowledge, like why would someone want to stay with another when their partner had no dreams/goals/future, so I know it's bad but its nice to keep back ups? Is that even considered cheating? I realized it all comes down to females scared of being alone. FOREVER ALONE! HA! No, but I think women who actually do that are scared to be single, and it's quite understandable sut, being single isnt the end of the world! People have different opinions on it, some have the best of times, and others the worst. My personal opinion, it doesnt matter to me. I am in no rush to be in one. Been single for a year, and obviously if I wanted to be in one, I would be, but I feel like im not ready, and I got other things that matter much more to me than trying to find someone to be with for a short amount of time, because that's what I think it is. People who rush in to relationships only stay together for so long, and it baffles me on how OBLIVIOUS people are to that concept! If it didn't work the first time, second time, third time, im POSITIVE it won't work any other time. I'm not being bitter, just realistic, and some people, cant face reality when theyre to busy fantasizing they're "future" with their Mr./Ms Right Now's. Be a friend, and let your friend know, so they'll let their friends know, and then their friends know, and maybe, just maybe everyone wouldnt be stuck in such a rut! 

Back to back ups! Know that every back up you have it will give you a harder time to find a real relationship to be in, if that's what you're looking for, because you will forever have back ups, and when you find a good one, it'll slip right passed you either by karma, or by your stupid games.

I used to do it, not anymore, because its hurtful not only to you, but to others, andddd ever heard of karma? You can THINK you're playin your partner, but truth of the matter, you can be just another chess piece to her game as well. 

I can't tell you what to do, what to say, who to date, what to look out for, but I can advise you on all of those things, and when the results came out as to what I said, and you're gonna be like "How come no one told me?" my blog will still be here, and I wont say it but in the back of your mind you're gonna hear me say "I told you so" 

But if I was wrong, then I'm wrong, I never have admitted that I know everything, and I wasn't telling anyone what to do. And like everyone says, don't take relationship advices from a single person, because thats what i am. A single girl.

Train rides almost over, and im getting a little train-sick, so I guess this is it for now. I have another topic that I need to touch base on, but that'll be for another time. Until then readers! Happy reading.

BTW I'm thinking about vlogging! I feel like i'd be able to do that a lot more because it's always easier to speak your mind and put some aggression behind it than typing it out with a bunch of letters as to what im trying to say lol, we'll see(:

"those who are faithless know the pleasures of love. it is those who are faithful who know love's tragedies"

I have no clue who said that, but I absolutely love it.