Weighing out the beautiful situation

What are the standards to being skinny? What are the expectations on being fat? Why are their so many descriptions about weight, and size.

What are you doing to stay healthy? Are you trying to stay healthy?

Everyday, I look in the mirror, I stare at myself, I look from front to back, side to side, and see if I would be gaining any more unwanted fat. Now I know, I'm not the only that does so.

Look around readers, I see so many overweight people, that it scares me. I work in a grocery store, and I see what they are doing to themselves. They aren't trying to help themselves lose weight, but gain it! I look at them, and can't help but think, damn, do you not look at yourself, do you not see yourself, and where you are at? I mean, yes it's rude, and I bite my tongue, but sometimes I just wanna tell them, NO, you don't need this 2lbs of chicken wings, 24 pc fried chicken, 3lbs of potato salad, and a slab of ribs. I get it, some people are big boned, but that doesn't mean that the big pooch, comes from being big-boned. I'm just saying. Not hating.

Let's get this out there, I don't think I'm fat, no. I clearly, don't think I'm skinny either, but what I do want to know, what the hell is considered skinny and fat these days, since the obesity population sky-rocketed.

It bugs me, when people call me skinny lol, I mean, I'm really not, but what I hate is when people are like I hate you, youre skinny and I'm not, welllll do something about it. You just standing there eating and complaining your life away isn't going to make you skinnier.

So lets see where this takes us. I weigh 118, and I'm 5'1 1/2"



I'm average. So, if you guys say I'm skinny, I'll slap you. If you say I'm fat, I'll whoop your ass, jk, but really though. Now I'm clearly not saying that whatever this chart says goes, but it's something to look on about. I mean, what am I to say what skinny or fat is. If youre happy being the size you are then PERFECTO(: No one should make you feel insecure about yourself, and you should never feel insecure because confidence is sexy(;

Which brings on another topic. You are beautiful. You are handsome. No one should make you feel any different than what you feel about yourself, and what you feel about yourself should be nothing but positive feedback. Let's face it, no one would want to be with someone with low self esteem, but I rather be with a guy with a low self esteem than a cocky asshole. Be confident not cocky, no one likes a big head.

My mother used to tell me when I was younger that I was this ugly, fat kid, and coming from my own mom, it brought me down so low. That I eventually believed everything my mom had told me. Then one day I decided to just not care what my mom would say about me, because I am beautiful, and what she said about me, wouldn't change my opinion about me. I changed. My confidence had a dramatic boost, and I had lost weight. Now she sees me as a beautiful individual, but being skinny, or thin, or fat or anything considers you to be a beautiful individual.

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

"Good looks catches the eye, but good personality catches the heart"

Okay beautiful people, lemme know what y'all think(: