the Good, the Bad, the Ugly.

WARNING: 3 PART BLOG.
DON'T SAY I DIDN'T WARN YOU.

SIDE-CHICS

SMH.

What's so good about being someones sidechic? What's so good about being an option? Second place? Not important?

Do you see where I'm going with this? Do you girls love to not get the respect and attention you deserve? I feel SO bad, for y'all when it comes to this.

I mean sure, sometimes it all turns into your favor, and dude ends up leaving his girl for you one day, but ever realize that he might do the same thing to you? He's done it before, with you, what makes he won't do it again, with another girl?

I don't know what your mentality is about this subject, but I feel that you are underestimating your worth. I've reiterated this enough, that I feel like I keep writing the same stuff each post I have.

Plain and simple, respect is not given but earned. So you demand respect from people when you don't respect them, let alone yourself? Double standard. That's a big HELL NO. How do you go on and complain that no one loves you, when YOU, have no love for yourself. Learn to love yourself, before you love others.

I have never wanted or decided to put myself in the position of the "sidechic". It's POINTLESS. I'll be honest, the ONE time, I was the "sidechic" I wasn't treated like one, I was treated like the MAIN chic, which doesn't sound any better lol, but I got dude to break up with his girl to be with me, but then I didn't want him anymore haha. I know I'm mean. Sue me.

Point being, why would you guys put yourself into a position to where you are not 1st place, but 2nd place? I'm HELLA competitive and will FIGHT to get 1st place, I'll never settle for anything less. Other than that I was never and never will be someones second chic/choice. I will always remain first, and so should all of you ladies out there.

I'll never fully understand it, because in order to fully understand it, you got to be put in their shoes, and well, like I said NEVER been sidechic.

Anyone want to take upon this duty, and become interviewed? Lol, I'm wit it if you wit it(:

Sidechic'n only makes you desparate ladies. Does it make you feel better about yourself? Does it make you feel superior? DO you feel good about being a home-wrecker? Which brings up the second part.

CHEATING.

Now, I have never cheated and I'm not talking any kind of smack towards this, I'm simply just saying, "WHY?" and usually when y'all do it, it's with a bish 5x uglier, lol like I really DON'T get it.

I understand the whole, "you want what you can't have" trust me, I KNOW, but sometimes, there's a reason why you can't have those things you want. Try a different approach, you only WANT him, but you don't NEED him, therefore, you are better off WITHOUT him(:

Anyone want to take up this duty, and become interviewed? Promise, you'll be anonymous(: no one will know you and your scandalous ways.

I rather be single, than be lied to, disrespected, and unvalued. Which brings me to the last part.

SINGLE/RELATIONSHIPS.

"..she ain't got a man, but she's not alone.."

(:

If y'all been keepin up with my blog, I'm single, woah big shocker there lol. A lot of ppl make being single so bad, but when you're actually really really single no ties or connection, it's really the best. Trust me. I've had so much fun this past year and I wouldn't take it back. Nothing makes me more happier than friends and family which they are all that I need as of now. Until then, I'll be in a realtionship when im fully ready and wanting one, because like I said, I'm having just way too much fun doing what I do, try it, it's not that bad(:

Don't get me wrong, I'm deff NOT talkin smack about people being in a relationship, or relationships in general. Relationships are fun and amazing, but when you're not ready or deff not feeling it, you shouldn't be in one, and if youre having second thoughts about anything, then, why be in one?

Simply stating the fact that, life has it's ups and downs, single or not, you're gonna have a great and horrible time. It all comes down to, if you're strong enough to hold your own, or if theres someone there to help you through those times.

As of now, I'm my own person, strong enough to hold my ground, and to help other ppl stand when they can't anymore.

I'm simply just saying tho(:

I repeat what I say, because repition is easily remembered. I repeat because the more I say it, the more I want it, I repeat because I want a lot of girls to repeat what I'm saying.

These three things that I've blogged about, are the three things that I have been thinking about lately, and well, they tie a long with eachother very well I must say.

You guys must think I'm this overpowering feminist conceited bitch lol, but I'm not. Promise(: I'm just an all around girl, with some amazing great advice, sometimes. I may be a youngin, but I'm wise beyond my years.

Feel free to leave comments anonymously, I check it on the daily(: yet, I don't recieve a lot of comments either ):

Take in mind, the whole time I've been writing this blog, Rihanna's song, "only girl" has been on repeat.

"I want you to make me feel like I'm the only girl in the world."

Not only make me FEEL like I'm the only girl, but MAKE me the only girl in the world for you.

So appropriate, for this blog.

Until next time, readers(:

From Me, To You.

I've been doing some thinking, and realization, as always.

I have never felt so right about anything, as I do this time.

Dear Future Mr. Right,

I'm simply not ready. I'm not ready to meet you, want you, like you, love you, have you. I am honestly, enjoying mi vida as it is ahora(: My life has never been as discombobulated as it has been this past year, and you know what, I wouldn't change it if I had the chance to. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, and I am the strongest I have EVER been. I am on a paper trail, and on a mission to love me and my loved ones. I'm not ready, and not stable. If you were to see where I'm at right now, I'm sure you wouldn't want to be anywhere near me, but you'd be so proud of how I'm doing things, because I'm on this fast paced roller coaster, no hands. I want you to see me as a solid, strong, individual when you meet me, and as of now, I'm not quite there yet. I have respect for myself and you as my future boo that I want you to know in order for you to meet the right one, you have to let go of a few(in my case a lot) of wrong ones. So, let me go through my wrong men, let me get my practice, let me get my time, let me fuck up so many times, let me cry over the wrong men, let me lose sleep, let me stress, let me have fun, let me know how to care about someone, let me know how to love someone, so when I met you, and if you ask me, I'm ready(:

A lot of people mistake me for being single, because I'm EXTREMELY picky, I'm not good enough for anybody and I have nothing to offer; but you're wrong. I am single, because I know what I deserve, and it's not that I have nothing to offer, I just have to much for you to handle. I'm single not only because I'm not good enough for anybody, it's because no one is good enough for me.

I said to a friend, that I am doing all this to only better myself, to change me. So in order to change myself, to better myself, I must let go of what I like and want the most, the things that I want to improve. So I give up you, I give up relationships, and other things, only to improve myself. So when I do meet you, you'd be glad I let you go, because I have matured so much, I've grown into the woman, you were destined to be with.

So hun, take your time with your mistakes, as I am, let me do me, and you do you. I hope to see and meet you when we are BOTH ready, because from that point, there is NO turning back. It's going to be ME and YOU.(:

With Lots of Love,

Molly<3

"We walk the same path but got on different shoes. Live in the same building but we got different views." -Drake

Sexy VS Skanky

Alright ladies, this ones for you.

WHY DO YOU THINK BEING SKANKY IS SEXY? I mean, do y'all not know the difference? As a female, you broads make me and the other females look BAD, and not in a good way. Look it, I understand you want to look your best for your man, for your girl, for your whoever, but do that when it's just you two.

So as you guys already know how I am, me on this whole female empowerment shindiggg, I want to write this lovely blog and dedicate it to you(:

What is sexy?
1. marked by or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest.
2. exciting sexual desire.

How many of you girls have those definitions in mind when you guys try to be "sexy"?

What is skanky?
1. highly offensive; arousing aversion or disgust.

Or do you guys think of this?

Oh, by the way, yes, yes I did use my dictionary app, sue me.

Anyways. Sexy, it is what it is. Skanky, isn't anything. As the definition is stated, sexy, is marked by or trending to arouse sexual desire or interest. You know what that means to me? It's like, being conservative, but showing a little something to draw their "interest" their attention. As one person starts off by showing a little cleavage, or leg, or anything, then the next female, tries to outdo the next, to make her look better. Let's face it girls, we are so competitive, and there are so many beautiful women out there, that you have to up yourself, which literally your making yourself not look sexy, but skanky. By the previous female showing a little cleavage, then the next female is going to unbutton her shirt all the way down to her bra, just to catch the males attention span. Like I said numerous of times, we females are the most powerful and beautiful things ever. EVER. So to dress yourself so low, it makes us less powerful, makes us powerless ):

Not a lot of females can differentiate between sexy and skanky, so they think that whatever they are wearing, doing, saying, is always going to be sexy, and it's not.

I don't know and have much else to say, rather than, be who you are, because image is everything. Don't make yourself look so easy, and expect Mr. Right to come right at you, or complain that, you can't find yourself a decent man; it's only because you are attracting dogs. Short, but simple blog ladies. Shouldn't be that hard to follow, and catch on. Do yo thang, or switch it up, either way, no skank-in around. I'm just really to nice to all of you ladies, to give you guys a heads-up in life hahaha(:

Lastly, I guess I should be writing on my blog more often, but it would help if you guys gave me topics to write about, you know, it's only me, I got one brain, and one perspective, I'd love to hear what you guys say, and want me to talk about, with my point of view. So don't be afraid, follow me on twitter and ask, and I'll answer(: @mollydarlinggg

No witty quote either, just be you, and that's all I ask for(:
Sex it up, and skank it down(: