the Good, the Bad, the Ugly.

WARNING: 3 PART BLOG.
DON'T SAY I DIDN'T WARN YOU.

SIDE-CHICS

SMH.

What's so good about being someones sidechic? What's so good about being an option? Second place? Not important?

Do you see where I'm going with this? Do you girls love to not get the respect and attention you deserve? I feel SO bad, for y'all when it comes to this.

I mean sure, sometimes it all turns into your favor, and dude ends up leaving his girl for you one day, but ever realize that he might do the same thing to you? He's done it before, with you, what makes he won't do it again, with another girl?

I don't know what your mentality is about this subject, but I feel that you are underestimating your worth. I've reiterated this enough, that I feel like I keep writing the same stuff each post I have.

Plain and simple, respect is not given but earned. So you demand respect from people when you don't respect them, let alone yourself? Double standard. That's a big HELL NO. How do you go on and complain that no one loves you, when YOU, have no love for yourself. Learn to love yourself, before you love others.

I have never wanted or decided to put myself in the position of the "sidechic". It's POINTLESS. I'll be honest, the ONE time, I was the "sidechic" I wasn't treated like one, I was treated like the MAIN chic, which doesn't sound any better lol, but I got dude to break up with his girl to be with me, but then I didn't want him anymore haha. I know I'm mean. Sue me.

Point being, why would you guys put yourself into a position to where you are not 1st place, but 2nd place? I'm HELLA competitive and will FIGHT to get 1st place, I'll never settle for anything less. Other than that I was never and never will be someones second chic/choice. I will always remain first, and so should all of you ladies out there.

I'll never fully understand it, because in order to fully understand it, you got to be put in their shoes, and well, like I said NEVER been sidechic.

Anyone want to take upon this duty, and become interviewed? Lol, I'm wit it if you wit it(:

Sidechic'n only makes you desparate ladies. Does it make you feel better about yourself? Does it make you feel superior? DO you feel good about being a home-wrecker? Which brings up the second part.

CHEATING.

Now, I have never cheated and I'm not talking any kind of smack towards this, I'm simply just saying, "WHY?" and usually when y'all do it, it's with a bish 5x uglier, lol like I really DON'T get it.

I understand the whole, "you want what you can't have" trust me, I KNOW, but sometimes, there's a reason why you can't have those things you want. Try a different approach, you only WANT him, but you don't NEED him, therefore, you are better off WITHOUT him(:

Anyone want to take up this duty, and become interviewed? Promise, you'll be anonymous(: no one will know you and your scandalous ways.

I rather be single, than be lied to, disrespected, and unvalued. Which brings me to the last part.

SINGLE/RELATIONSHIPS.

"..she ain't got a man, but she's not alone.."

(:

If y'all been keepin up with my blog, I'm single, woah big shocker there lol. A lot of ppl make being single so bad, but when you're actually really really single no ties or connection, it's really the best. Trust me. I've had so much fun this past year and I wouldn't take it back. Nothing makes me more happier than friends and family which they are all that I need as of now. Until then, I'll be in a realtionship when im fully ready and wanting one, because like I said, I'm having just way too much fun doing what I do, try it, it's not that bad(:

Don't get me wrong, I'm deff NOT talkin smack about people being in a relationship, or relationships in general. Relationships are fun and amazing, but when you're not ready or deff not feeling it, you shouldn't be in one, and if youre having second thoughts about anything, then, why be in one?

Simply stating the fact that, life has it's ups and downs, single or not, you're gonna have a great and horrible time. It all comes down to, if you're strong enough to hold your own, or if theres someone there to help you through those times.

As of now, I'm my own person, strong enough to hold my ground, and to help other ppl stand when they can't anymore.

I'm simply just saying tho(:

I repeat what I say, because repition is easily remembered. I repeat because the more I say it, the more I want it, I repeat because I want a lot of girls to repeat what I'm saying.

These three things that I've blogged about, are the three things that I have been thinking about lately, and well, they tie a long with eachother very well I must say.

You guys must think I'm this overpowering feminist conceited bitch lol, but I'm not. Promise(: I'm just an all around girl, with some amazing great advice, sometimes. I may be a youngin, but I'm wise beyond my years.

Feel free to leave comments anonymously, I check it on the daily(: yet, I don't recieve a lot of comments either ):

Take in mind, the whole time I've been writing this blog, Rihanna's song, "only girl" has been on repeat.

"I want you to make me feel like I'm the only girl in the world."

Not only make me FEEL like I'm the only girl, but MAKE me the only girl in the world for you.

So appropriate, for this blog.

Until next time, readers(: