Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Back in Action.

I guess I'm not only one going through a drought and by drought I mean blogging.

I am here to finally catch up to the many days that I've missed.

I'm trying to balance this life lol. School, work, family, and friends.

During my uh break from blogging I've witnessed one too many break-ups, and I'll tell you what, they weren't pretty. I'm sure we've all had the good/bad break-ups and they aren't ever easy, but the best thing you can do for yourself as of then is to try your best to move on, because you're not only making it harder, but you're also hurting yourself. Let go. Move on. It's only hard because you make it hard on yourself. If you can't let go you won't be able to move on. If you can't move on its because you won't let go. Trust me, its for the better.

Live about your day, and experience the single life. Learn about yourself, and make time for yourself, its YOU time. Re-evaluate life, and what your life has to offer, and what you have to do to get where you want. Take some time to think about it, and just because someone is in a relationship, it doesn't mean they can't do that either, you're more than welcome to.

Before being single used to mean that no one liked you and wanted to be with you, but now it means that no one actually meets up to your standards. Take your time, and don't rush it. Promise, it'll be worth it.

People these days think it's the end of the world when they get out of a relationship and it's not. Which brings me to another topic.

I was at school the other day and we had come across a very touching subject that I'd like to get my point across.

Suicide.

It's very saddening to when people think that nothing is ever worth living for and that they have to end their life by killing themselves.

I was in my psychology class and the teacher was reading the statistics of suicide deaths/attempts. Pretty much to sum it up males have a higher chance of committing suicide than females do. Females take a lighter approach by either taking one to many pills, or the slitting of the wrists. Males take the approach by using a gun, and or hanging themselves.

Which the other day I had watched a short clip of a guy who had put a gun to his mouth and pulled the trigger. It made me sick, and had also brought me to the point where, I wouldn't ever want to love or have someone love me that much that when we didn't make it that he would have to do that to himself. I wouldn't ever be able to forgive myself.

Suicide is definitely a mistake/accident that you can not recover from, so please think about it before you actually commit.

If there is anyone out there, that has been thinking about suicide, and seriously thinking and considering it, please seek some help, some comfort, and if all else fails, come to me. I would not mind at all, you would never ever be a bother, promise.

Laughter is the best medicine ever. I promise I can make you laugh, bet we can be friends(:

Friends will be there for you when you need them, but best friends are always there for you even when you don't need them. I gotta say I got the greatest friends in the world(: They're pretty awesome, and you guys should be jealous. We've got that bond that you guys just wouldn't understand. We've had our ups and we hardly had our downs, but we're not perfect everyone has em. We only become stronger after we recover from our lowest points. I love those girls.

A lot of girls are quite scandalous which I'm sure most of you already knew. I didn't know girls were capable and stupid enough to do the things that they do. I had sat down with a friend one night, and he had told me a bunch of shit that a couple girls were doing to each other, but then again, I'm not surprised because like I said, GIRLS. Immature little brats, that need to grow up. If I had found out anyone had done that to me, better believe your little bratty ass is gettin a whoopin(: I'm not too sure as why they do what they do, but any other reason than them being attention whores, is beyond me. It's not cute that you're grown, and act like a baby. GROW UP. Don't act dumb to get a guys attention, don't act like your a hard ass and when it comes down to it you run away, don't act like your the shit and get mad when I give you toilet paper to wipe off that funk. Do us all a favor, and have a seat!

I know it's been awhile since I've been blogging, but I moved on to tumblr lol. Blogger I didn't cheat on you but tumblr meets my needs and is everywhere I go, I can't let that bish go. You'll still be my first love, and I'll always come back for youuuuuu<3 haha

Anyways, it's mollydarlinggg.tumblr.com I've barely started so there's not much, but it's much easier for me to post, because I could do it on my phone, and not have to slave away on the laptop typing away, YAY! #teamiphone I'm trying to get the hang of it, so follow me(:

I think I've seem to get everything off my chest, and if not, well I could always use another blog topic(:

Until then readers..

"Strong is the new beautiful."

I've been using and saying that a lot lately, because well, it's so true(: if your weak you're ugly #thatisall hahah jk, kinda..

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